A major reason for break ups these days is the rate of infidelity. Many a times, people do not expect to be cheated on because they are faithful. But then, life can really be unfair at times. Is it not better you know the signs of a cheating partner and save yourself unnecessary heart break in future? Here are seven tips to help you.
1. The phone:
The surest cupboard housing cheating skeletons is his/her phone. Is she always with her phone? How secretive does he/she get his/her phone? If your partner takes the phone everywhere, I mean everywhere, like bathroom, toilet, and kitchen at all times, then something is up. If the phone is always on password and your partner won’t tell you the password, don’t just raise an eyebrow, you need to raise your two eyes entirely.
2. Upgraded dress sense:
So, you notice your partner suddenly upped his/her game in dressing just like that. New clothes, new shoes, new perfume; extra efforts at looking good than usual? Then pay close attention. Something is definitely fishy. He/she wants to look good for the co-cheat.
3. Partner’s schedule:
Your partner’s usual schedule just changed without him/her being able to tell you exactly what has been keeping them occupied? It is most likely because they have made room to accommodate one more occupant. If it is not so, your partner will be able to tell you straight up and consistently what has been taking his/her time.
4. Cancels appointments abruptly:
If he is fond of cancelling dates with you at last minute because of unavoidable reasons, yet cannot say precisely ‘why’, then you should be concerned. If the excuses sound odd to you, then you should probably trust your guts.
5. Zero intimacy:
If you both used to have intimate moments and your partner suddenly loses interest in it, someone is obviously doing your job for you. Sudden withdrawal with no sound explanation implies they are doing it with someone else.
6. Avoids talks about future plans:
If your partner suddenly becomes uninterested in talks about the future of your relationship, it is clear sign that he/she has such plans with someone else.
7. Avoids meeting family members:
If your partner suddenly starts avoiding the need to get introduced to your family members or friends, he/she is only trying to save you the waste of energy because he/she knows the relationship is going nowhere. So, read the handwriting on the wall clearly.
We live in a changing world. And as humans, we are constantly developing new ways of doing things…even new ways to cheat and cover our tracks. So, it is safe to say if you observe three of these signs in your partner, you should definitely raise an eye brow. If your partner can evade all these signs, then what you have is a professional cheat as a partner and you don enter one chance